EMAIL1:

春节好！

目前考虑到国内投资。请仔细读我这封自我介绍，因为我关闭资料的原因是不原意被打搅。。。请直接回复到我的私人邮箱为：XXXXXXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com，所以可以邮件交流。（我能读写中文）I do read and speak Chinese.

1.（1.8米高）I am 1.80m tall, and I am easy going；PhD学位（博士学位）；
2. （1969年出生）BD: 1969；
3. （不戴眼镜）I do not wear glasses；
4.（华人，居住美国，拥有一些公司）I live in USA. I own a few company corporations in the United States of America. I am from China originally；
5.（收入3-4百万美元---坦率告知，不是为了说大话，而是以防以后吃惊）I live well by earning high salaries and profit of the companies. My personal annual income ranges from $3-4 million. I am not bragging! I don’t think money can buy love. Just want you know this upfront, so there are no surprises later;
6.（喜欢音乐，体育，钓鱼等）I love music (classic and others). I love sports
(Tennis and Volleyball). I like to go fishing；
7. (个性不错）I have nice personality.

I am looking for a decent, nice, funny, serious, and sweet girl. I have been too busy so that I think the Internet can be a good place for looking for true love as long as both are honest and sincere. I am telling you my income because I want to be as frank and honest as possible. The reason that I am telling you about my earnings is that I want you to know that I am financially stable and I am successful（提钱只是表示打拼和成就包括了财政稳定）.Love is one thing, but practical is another. They are related. I have never  elieved that money can buylove（从来不认为钱可以买爱情）!

If you are still single and seriously looking for love, please contact me freely. Let me introduce myself to you and then you would know if you are interested. Please feel free to write me Chinese as needed. Thanks for your reading my email.

Regards,

Hai Yang

请直接回复到我的私人邮箱为：XXXXXX@gmail.com

EMAIL2:

你好（Hello）:

希望你和你家人过了好的春节 ，并祝你好运。。。我还是很忙。

我还在出差公干，谢谢你的耐心（I am still traveling for business, so please be
patient, and thank you!） 感谢你的回复（Thank you very much for your
response）.

所以你可以给我中文邮件，如果你更愿意用中文的话 （If you would like to write me in Chinese,
please feel free to do so）.我是居住和工作在美国的华人 （I am Chinese, but as you
know I live and work in the United States. ）We should keep writing to
each other to better understand mutually.
虽然我是中国人，我在美国生活并运营几个公司（Although I am Chinese, I live and manage my own
companies in the United States）.  我的电脑打中文字不太方便（My computer here cannot
write Chinese）.  我电脑可以读中文（I can read
Chinese）.我再讲一次，如果你想用中文写，没有问题的（Once again if you prefer to communicate
with me in Chinese, please feel free to do so）. I have been in the
States for over 10 years.  I graduated from Beijing University when I
was very young.  Then I came to Stanford University for my PhD. After
earning my PhD in engineering and management, I worked for government.
I started to run my own business later on.  I started almost 10 years
ago, now my companies are multi million dollar companies thanks to my
hard work and my employee’s effort. Now you can see that I have been
very busy and I have been working very hard. I am very normal and
modest.

生长在Shanghai, Jiangsu and Zhejiang Province，I have a nice family that
loves me. My parents and some of my family members live in China.  I
know the importance of people’s heart.

希望有个善良，甜蜜，诚实和可敬可爱的女士（I want to have a lady who is nice, sweet, honest,
and decent）.  I believe that you may have those characteristics.   I
want to focus on girl’s inside not outside, although you may look
nice.  I want a girl who has her own ambitions and who values her own
family.  I want a girl who is family oriented.

I want to be practical, which means that everything comes down to the
real life.  No matter who tells money is not important, he or she is
exactly correct because people need to live and to last the love
feelings.   Whoever says the money is the most important, he or she is
wrong because money is not everything and money cannot buy love.

Although I am writing to you over Internet, I am a real person. Please
do not treat me as an Internet person.  As long as we tell everything
to each other with honesty, we should be for real.  Again we should
treat each other as a real person.  Due to my busy schedules, I have
no time dating any women here.  In addition, there are not many nice
Chinese girls where I am in the States.  Thanks to the Internet, I now
have the chances to seek for someone like you over the Internet. Using
Internet as a tool to search for a nice girl like you can help me
schedule my plans.  For example, I can write my report while I am
writing to you or while I am on the phone conference.

我认为我有能力估判一个人（I have the capability of judging people in
general）.你能否让我知道你是否对成为我的女友感兴趣（Please let me know if you are interested
in becoming my dear girlfriend）.  你如果有现成的最近照片请给我一些（If you have scanned
or JPG pictures of yours, please feel free to send to me）.  Although I
do
want to send you my picture, unfortunately I do not have any available
to send at this point（可惜我没有现成照片）.  Again looks do not matter too much,
so if you do not want to send me your pictures, that is perfectly okay
and thank you（如果不愿给照片，没有关系）。

再次感谢你的回复。

海洋

EMAIL3:

你好吗？在国内春节一定很热闹吧？

虽然在此电脑上打中文很慢，还是想用中文夹英文与你沟通。。。

目前忙于收购几家公司的事，所有要与很多银行和有关人员打非常繁琐的交道。。。虽然特忙，但还是努力一次又一次在思索你分析你和在意你， The
results are good and promising.

很抱歉，it took me so long to get back with you due to my very busy
schedules and personal thinking.  As always,
喜欢收到你的邮件信息来仔细读懂你，因为感到了正在接近一位真实朴素的中国女士。。。I do not feel that I am
talking to an Internet girl.  I hope you have the same feelings
towards our online communications.

读了你的邮件和你的介绍, 相信已经了解你很多:

1. You are shy in general but sometimes brave.  But you are a very
decent, nice, and sweet young lady； 2. You really love to find a
decent and good man who can cherish the love feelings；3. You want to
ensure that you are seeking for a real man not an Internet man；4. You
are active in many areas；5. You respect people in general；6. You
cherish family values；7. You pursue to be practical not to be vague
towards financial issues；8. You seem very smart；9. You believe in
“Yuan Fen”? 10. You want to be committed to your loved one；

都是有智慧的成人了。。。需要坦诚和无隐藏的面对.  I am very normal physically. I have just had
no time to deal with women.  I am telling you this because I feel that
I can trust you.

我在Texas, Florida, Washington, Montana, and California,
Illinois都有公司和办事处，还会增加，还要考察在中国的投资。 So I am traveling as needed to
inspect my offices.  I also need to travel to meet my customers.  You
see that I am really busy.

愿你成为my dear girlfriend.  如果你认为为时过早或认为草率，就请指出，所有我可以适当知难而退不浪费双方时间。。。But
my honesty lets me to say that I want you...（但是诚实感受是说想要你继续。。。）,你愿意吗？

祝安好！

卢海洋

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我的姪子30多仍未婚..流浪漢給妳發了郵件為他徵婚交友..你卻能很快速的回應..並說出不適合的原因..可見一位坦承的女孩還是會受到讚賞..祝福妳龍年行大運..婚友..事業..家庭圓滿成功

不晓得MM你有没有收到这样的信？

由于要去中国国内投资和合作，我最近特别忙碌，也很烦。。。

我争取尽量多用点中文。并想说谢谢你写邮件给我（I would like to thank you for writing to
me）.不知不觉地想你。。。希望你安好。

很抱拖拉这么久才在工作时间内写这份稍微长点的邮件给你。I have been traveling for many business
meetings… 但我想告诉你一些我在做什么，and also I would like to discuss some issues
related to love feelings（同时想探讨什么与爱的感觉有关）.   Please forgive me if
anything I am saying in the email is not correct （如果说的任何事有不对的要体谅我啊）.

我在美国运营几个公司. 我们的消费者用的产品几乎在各个超市都有 （Our products are being sold at almost
all supermarkets in USA）. My companies focus on many products
including tech such as motors for the Wind Energy （风能发电电机），Submarines
（潜艇用电机），industrial tooling， and new tools for many homeowners and
contractors. As the owner, I need to think and act very quickly.  I
hire my employees by reading their resumes and talking with them over
the phone.  I review their performance based on their willingness to
do the work for my companies.  It is very difficult to find good
employees these days, and therefore I have to make my determination
very quickly and accurately to see who I can hire.   I can tell about
a person by reading what they represent to me.  My companies are doing
multi-million business transactions per year.  It takes me a lot of
time and energy to compete with other companies.

I do not have time to take pictures or scan pictures at this time due
to my very busy schedules （现在几乎没有时间照相或扫描照片，工作实在太多了）. Sorry about that.
 But I can say this: although I may look a little older than I
actually am due to the stress, I do not look too
bad（可以这么说，由于工作压力长相老了点，但长相不会那么差）. 我可能没有直接回答你的问题或疑惑（I may have not
answered your questions directly）, （但我想让你通过读邮件来了解）but I want you to
know me by reading my email messages.

（如果一个人能讲明什么是爱，那可能不是“爱”）If you think you can tell what “love” is, that
may not be true love.  “Yuan Fen” （缘分） is traditional.（爱的感觉是很难解释的）Love
feelings are trick in some ways.  Love can appear when you meet
someone for the first time.  Even though you may have known some one
for a long time, you still may not have love feelings for him.  You
cannot explain what love really is and where love comes
from（无法解释爱或爱从而来）.

The first letter I sent was going to 10 girls（第一份邮件发给了10个人）. Please be
sure that I am seriously writing this email to you only （请相信现在只给你认真写）.
 By reading and analyzing the responses, I made my determination to
keep communication with you only.  I have no time to play games.  I
have no time and energy to write to more than one girl…

（我不在意你的过去）I do not really care about your past.  （在乎你的内心）I do care
about your inside.  I do not care if you have ever made any mistakes
when you were young.  I do care about whether you have learned
anything good from your mistakes.   I do not really care about your
looks.  I do care about whether you have a warm heart…Now you can see
where I am standing for.   Love is mutual feeling.

When I was at University working for my PhD, my professors did not
really help me too much.  I had to work hard to find answers for
myself to complete my PhD paper work.  I like that because it is
called independence.  I have met some Chinese people in the States.
Unfortunately, most of them are touchy and selfish.  You may have
heard that some Chinese people have become that way since they came to
the USA.  Why?  I have no clue.

（请告诉我更多关于你自己的事或想法）Please tell me more about yourself if you have time
because I enjoy reading your email messages（我喜欢读你的邮件，不论长短）. I am glad
that you keep communications with me.  As I told you, I feel that I
like you…I really want you to be my girlfriend… I am not seeking for
casual lover… I am seeking for a serious girlfriend towards the family
goal（目标不是随便的情，而是需要找严肃并认真追求家庭的女士）.

不要忘了给你的最近照片发给我。。。

祝好！

Haiyang

Re: josei:

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你曾经说: 厉害吧！！羡慕吧？？？！！！这样的绝世钻石男给俺碰上喽！！！！！哈哈！！唉唉！！！！！！可。。。。可可可。。。这不是俺想要的啊！！！！世风日下的这年头，整天遇到这样的不靠谱的，其实真不是滋味！！！

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Re: 颜小小:

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你曾经说: 不晓得MM你有没有收到这样的信？由于要去中国国内投资和合作，我最近特别忙碌，也很烦。。。我争取尽量多用点中文。并想说谢谢你写邮件给我（I would like to thank you for writing tome）.不知不觉地想你。。。..

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